On this morning's BBC Newshour, the recent revelation that Maria Schneider actually didn't consent to the rape scene in Last Tango in Paris was discussed with someone from a group called Women in Hollywood, who seized this as an opportunity to repeat yet again the feminist article of faith that this is "something that women just don't lie about." I've submitted this comment to the BBC:
The guest you spoke with for your story on the rape scene
in Last Tango in Paris made a statement of ideological faith,
not fact, when she said that rape is "something that women
just don't lie about."
Not only do women lie about rape, it probably happens a
good deal more often than many people realize. A female
friend of mine once related three different instances of which
she had personal knowledge. In two, a woman had what she
described as "enthusiastically consensual" sex -- long before
that became a catch phrase -- close enough for her to clearly
hear, and in one case see, what was going on (this was when
she was rather heavily involved in the party scene). In each
case, the following day these women talked to her about they
had been "raped." In a third case, the boyfriend of one of her
female classmates related his concern over having learned
that she'd been raped by a man in the same class as the two
women -- a man not matching the description of anyone
actually in the class. My friend believed that in this last case,
the woman invented the rape to secure the boyfriend's devotion
via a protective response (which looks similar to the probable
root of the rape hoax recently at the University of Virginia).
In the other two, she put it down to some women's being
"unwilling to take responsibility for their sexuality." It should
be emphasized my friend wasn't in any way condemning these
women for being "loose," as she was much like them in that
respect; she was only criticizing them for refusing to own their
own choices.
Janet Bloomfield has compiled a list of documented false rapes here:
12 Women Who Lied About Being Raped And Why They Did It
While this article doesn't directly demonstrate how frequent such
false claims are, the fact the women involved all evidently thought
they could get away with it, combined with the observable fact that
so many people, like your guest, keep perpetuating the assumption
that women never lie about rape -- an attitude that would, in fact,
make false claims easy to get away with -- suggests that these
documented cases are just the tip of a possibly much bigger iceberg.
The flip side of this attitude is the assumption that rape of men by
women is either impossible or exceedingly rare. Like its counterpart,
this assumption results in very distorted public perceptions, as the
best recent research indicates that it's actually pretty common, but
much more rarely reported:
Men Are Raped Almost as Often as Women in America. We Need
to Talk About This.
Monday, December 05, 2016
On the BBC, a Feminist Yet Again Exploits an Actual Rape Victim to Protect Hoaxers
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